“Any love that depends on a specific cause, once the cause is gone, the
love is gone, but any love that does not depend on specific cause, that love
will last forever.” (Ethics 5:16)
This Jewish principle extracted from Perkie Avot (Ethics of our Foreparents), guides us to seek purpose
in our actions so that we constantly live in a state of questioning. “For what
do I do, and for Whom do I do? Do I live a life of truth and honesty? Where do
my intentions lye? Do I do for a specific rhyme or reason, or because it is the
most real me? This maxim also suggests that the opposite of such may lead to
the consequence of fleeting, unyielding fruit of inauthentic relationships—to the
other, self or environ.
When questioning, we may be confronted with the reality that
alterior motives do in fact guide
many of my actions and many breaths are cast with Tohu VaVohu, the clear and unclear, the real and the fake, the
genuine and the ingenuine. So when that moment comes, it is our responsibility
to seek out our inner compass and ask, where does my most authentic self lye
and how do I awaken him (her)?
From Above the Clouds-June 19th, 2014:
Today, right now, I stand restless at the back of a 747
airliner after nearly travelling for an entire day. With 19 hours in the air
and 2 hours in London, standing seems like the only viable option. As I stare at the screen, and the plane icon
slowly passes my more frequented destination of Israel, I am reminded that this
journey is not about my roots as a Jew, but as a person. Because as a person I
know how to sing, laugh, and cry; as a person I fear and I long for connection.
With the many struggles I will bare witness to, from heart to heart, I only
hope I can be human: pulsing, emotive and authentic.
As I begin my journey, and as I bring you, the reader, on
this journey with me, I only hope I can be authentic, that I can bring a love
that is natural and does not depend on any specific cause. A love that can be nurtured
for the children I serve, or the Jews I will join with; a love more precious
then fools gold—all because I know, it does not depend on a specific cause
other than authenticity.
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